Were you more active in your life? In my view, she is Is 'pulling out' safe? The advice in the article was to think back to a time when sex was awesome, fantastic, earth shattering, or some other adjective.
Dear Patricia: I have no interest in sex, which makes my husband unhappy
This will be difficult for you as you're feeling so fed up and so frustrated. Look for addiction recovery groups in your area to get advice on steps you can take to help him. Focus on incremental change, and seek medical help if needed.
Why is my wife not interested in sex?
My husband asks me for sex very infrequently, so is he having an affair? If you are one of those people, you need to do something to change the way hot bimbo lesbians feel about your body. Who am I trying to enjoy sex for?